PRIDE | How to Connect

Last week, we opened our two-part mini-series on PRIDE month by discussing what to say and what not to say.  This week, I want to continue the discussion by digging into a story from the book of Acts and watching how Paul engaged a secular culture and steered the conversation toward faith.  I’m hopeful that, in doing so, we can do the same.

Most of us are probably used to avoiding conversations about sexuality with people, particularly when it comes to moral conversations about homosexuality with people outside of Christianity.  In some ways, I understand the reasoning—we don’t want to offend, don’t want to cause distance, or in general we are uncomfortable with it.  In other ways, I’m not so sure it’s always a good thing to avoid, particularly with people outside of faith.  After all, we looked at I Peter 3:15 last week which encourages us to always have an answer for the hope in us, so wouldn’t this also apply to our understanding of Biblical sexuality as well?

Being able to have a conversation about sexual morals and go further than simply, “God doesn’t approve of homosexuality” is important.  While that statement is technically true, to someone who doesn’t have a very high respect for God or the Bible, it doesn’t really matter.  What we need to also be able to convey is the “Why?”  Why does God not approve of homosexuality?  Under what reasoning does the Bible speak against it?  Today, I’d like us to look at this style of reasoning in a story from Acts 17, in Paul’s Sermon on Mars Hill.

Scott McFarland

PRIDE | Avoid or Engage?

This past weekend kicked off PRIDE month, a monthlong celebration of LGBTQ rights in our country.  This brings up a lot of different reactions among Christians.  More and more Christians are supportive, sadly.  Of those who hold to the Biblical position on sexuality, however, there are also varied responses.  Some want to avoid discussion on the issue altogether, pretend it’s not there, and just go on with life.  Others decide to engage, maybe posting a rainbow on their social media account and posting Genesis 9:13-16, the covenant God made with Noah.  Either way, it’s a tricky month for Christians who disagree with the culture’s shift on sexuality.  What to do?  Should we keep living life and just ignore it?  Should we engage in conversation about it?  If so, how should we and where should we discuss it?

While the Bible doesn’t have a book, chapter, verse reference on what to say during June Pride Month celebrations, it does lay down some principles of how to engage (or not engage) with people of differing belief in the world.  In this two-part series called PRIDE, we’ll discuss what the Bible has to say about differing morals and what to do about them.  My prayer is that over the next couple weeks we can be better equipped to deal with these issues.  Our world is not getting Godlier; it’s time we talk about how we respond.

Scott McFarland

When A+B≠C

Over the last several weeks, we’ve been going through our Parenting Faithful Children Series discussing how to avoid the 70% phenomenon, the percentage of kids who exit our homes and at the same time exit the faith.  One of the things I hate is that this discussion brings up a lot of guilt for folks who have been a part of the statistics—their child left faith after leaving the house and they don’t know what went wrong.

Certainly, sometimes the blame lies squarely with parenting choices: lack of church attendance, no serious commitment to teaching faith in the home, poor life choices and examples by the parents, etc…  But, sometimes, that’s not the case.  What about the situations where there were Godly parents who modeled their faith inside AND outside the home, were active in church participation, taught their children the Bible at home, and their children STILL walked away?  You probably know a few of these parents.  Maybe you ARE these parents.  What about them?

We will close out our series on Parenting Faithful Children discussing this scenario and what the Bible has to say about it.  What went wrong?  Is there any hope?  Join us.

Scott McFarland

Keeping the Main Thing the Main Thing

We’ll continue our “70%” series, talking about how to raise faithful children that defy the 70% statistic of kids who leave our homes and their faith after high school.  In this morning’s sermon, we’ll talk about how it takes being intentional—this isn’t going to happen by accident.  One of the biggest enemies in this effort is keeping the main thing the main thing.  It’s so easy to get sidetracked.  At our house, I am famous for starting things, getting 80% done, then moving on to something else.  I don’t believe I have ADD, but when you look at my project list you might be tempted to think so.  My other problem is that I’ll get into a project, then find other, related projects along the way that ultimately slow down or take away from the main project.  Maybe I do have ADD?

Either way, life can be like that.  Spending time developing our kids’ faith can be like that.  There are so many other things, right?  School, sports/extracurricular activities, friends, family outings, etc.—your kids’ and grandkids’ lives are a never-ending list of different projects/things going on!  It’s easy to let faith get lost in the shuffle.  If you are currently raising children or spend a significant amount of time with your grandchildren, I’d encourage you to think about some ways you can be very intentional and specific about cultivating faith with them.  It doesn’t have to be complicated—even something as simple as committing to memorize a verse every time you take a long car ride together.  These things are small things, but the small things become big things.  And big things will be what helps our children stay faithful into their adult years.                                                                                                                             

Scott McFarland

V.B.S. Food Pantry Support

V.B.S. will be supporting the local food pantry this year. Kids will compete to bring the most items each night. Sunday – canned peas; Monday – canned green beans; Tuesday – canned spaghetti sauce; Wednesday – mac & cheese. Thank you for your help with this worthwhile service.

V.B.S. Meeting

The next V.B.S. meeting will be Sunday, June 2nd, immediately after morning services, at the front of the auditorium. If you have any questions before this meeting, please contact Merna Bettinger.

It Takes a Village

I remember the “it takes a village” jokes back when Hillary Clinton wrote her “It Takes a Village” book in 1996.  The point of the book was building on an old African proverb “it takes a village to raise a child,” and the amount of influence others have on a child’s development for the good.  Jokes and politics aside, Hillary had a point.  There is an incredible amount of influence other people have on our children and their development, particularly when it comes to faith.

The text for our sermon today comes from Titus 2 where Paul instructs older women to teach younger women.  The beauty of the church is that we have the depth of intergenerational relationships right at our fingertips.  Study after study shows that it is healthy for young people to have relationships with older people outside of their families.  The perspective on life, the affirmation of another generation, and the passing on of faith and values are all benefits of connecting older and younger generations.

We live in a society that age segregates almost by default.  We have trouble integrating generations and there often exists a suspicion or distrust between older and younger.  “That’s not how it was when I was a kid” or “you’re too old” are common criticisms leveled at each other, which creates an “us vs. them” mentality.  That’s not what we are commanded to do in Scripture.  Older are to teach younger, younger are to respect older.  We have so much to learn from each other!

Scott McFarland

Elder & Deacon Meetings

The Elders meeting will be held Sunday, May 19th at 4:00 p.m. in the library.

The Deacons meeting will be held Monday, May 20th at 6:00 p.m. in the Fellowship building.

Parenting Faithful Children

I’m no expert on parenting—I’m right in the middle of my parenting years.  I’ve made and continue to make lots of mistakes, so I’m not claiming to know much about the topic.  When I was in youth ministry, however, I began noticing something.  A lot of our kids were leaving after high school and not coming back.  Even if they stayed in town, they didn’t come back to our church; it was even more the case for those who went away to college or other places.  I was always bothered by this…why is it so common?  Nationwide, about 70% of Christian teens will graduate high school and not return to church—that’s a national number spread across churches of all denominations and fellowships.  That’s a lot of kids.  Why is this and is there anything we can do about it?

Over the next several weeks, we’ll dive into a series I’ve entitled, “The 70%: Parenting Faithful Children.”  My hope is that we’ll talk about this crisis, what has contributed to it, and what things we can do to slow it down.  Sadly, even under ideal conditions, not all of our children will live faithful Christian lives in their adult years.  That’s just the reality.  There are, however, things that can be done to increase the likelihood that your son or daughter will continue to walk with God after they leave your home.  I hope you’ll join us for the duration of the series and learn as we look at the Bible for our answers to this problem.

Scott McFarland

Spring is…Springing

I don’t know about you, but I’m getting tired of the Hazardous Weather Outlooks, Tornado Warnings and Watches, and Floods. It’s almost like we’re paying for the mild winter with a crazy spring. I don’t mean to complain, but weather that comes with a side of destruction is on a different level than it just being a little too hot or too cold for our liking.

It’s not unusual when weather patterns start going crazy to think about the end of the world. Will this be how the world is at the end? Will there be lots of tornados, floods, storms? I don’t know.  What I do know is that God gave us a promise to continue sustaining the world throughout its life, until the end. At the end of The Flood, when God gives Noah His covenant never to destroy the earth again, He adds a special promise to it: “While the earth remains, seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, summer and winter, day and night, shall not
cease.” (Gen. 8:22)

Whatever Spring brings, you can be sure that God will keep his promise to sustain the world throughout seasons, harvests, and days. Ultimately, in promising this, God gives us a picture of His promise toward us: He will sustain us throughout our days as well—even when it seems like life is out of control, even when tragedies happen, even when things are hard. God continues to work behind the scenes to sustain His people. God cares for His creation—the earth, the plants/animals, and you.

Scott McFarland